The Crisis of Christmas

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Christmas is supposed to be a wonderful time of year, sprinkled with memory making, family togetherness, and meaningful experiences.

It’s SUPPOSED to be.

For this mama, the annual joy of Christmas is also mixed with stress, frustration, and much guilt-tripping as I make my way into the New Year.

You see, there is the KNOWLEDGE that Jesus is the reason for the season.  There is the REALIZATION that I shouldn’t sweat the small stuff.  There is even a major EFFORT to stay intently focused on the depth and beauty of the journey and the glory of God being encased in flesh so that I can know Him fully.

But there is also the stress of finances. There is the overwhelming amount of creative ideas on Pinterest – none of which I seem to be able to make happen. There are the bars of perfectionism, guilt, and discontent that I erect around myself that then form a jail of negative voices which handcuff the very joy and peace that should be within my reach.

Christmas…every year… is a crisis situation in my heart.

Even as my fingers move across the letters on my keyboard, I’m convicted of this reality and also clueless as to why this continues to happen to me, year after year.

I have printed out the FLYLady’s Holiday Control Journal.  I have a mother who flawlessly pulls off a beautiful home, tasty meals, and warm memories year after year. I have the internet which delivers blog after blog from women who love the season and display their take on merry-making for me to see and emulate.

So it’s not for a lack of knowledge that this person “perishes”.  It’s not for lack of example.  It’s not for lack of perfect planning tools.

It’s just a crisis.  That apparently happens to me over and over again.

This Crisis of Christmas…!

So this is not a blog post to tell you how to get it right.  This is not an encouraging letter written to tell all of the mommies, wives, daughters, sisters, or friends how to master the making of a great holiday.

This post is to tell you that you are not alone.

These words are to tell you that you may not EVER be Mrs. Claus (that would be my mother).

These words are to tell you that you should do YOUR best, whatever that “best” might be and then keep on movin’.

Your lights may still not be completely on the tree.

Your baked goods may still be an idea in the back of your head and not a reality available for the taking on your kitchen island.

Your Christmas gifts may not be hidden yet in the back of your closet.  In fact, the list of gift ideas for your loved ones may not yet even be written down.

But in the mayhem of the miraculous season, I want to share a secret with you.

You can find a key to unlock the cuffs, a crowbar to bend the rods around you, and a release to let hot air out of the balloon that seeks to float away, stealing your happiness.

Here it is.

It’s Him.

It’s the One who came.

In an utterly imperfect place, in an utterly imperfect family, in an utterly imperfect culture…

He came.

And He did what He did for an utterly imperfect YOU.

So if you are engulfed in the waves of emotion, thoughts, and feelings that I happen to be so well familiar with – don’t neglect to remember Him.

Light a candle… even if it isn’t a Christmas-scented one,

Play some Jesus-music… even if it isn’t the Christmas-centered kind,

Find a chair… even if isn’t decked out in décor fitted for the season,

And think about Him.

Think about what He did for YOU

And take joy and peace in knowing that Jesus, the Son of God, has already delivered you from the REAL crisis of living forever without Him.

And by focusing on the fact that He has already taken care of the ultimate crisis, you will find that the crisis of the Christmas season – the crisis that, like me, you may be so very well familiar with…

You will find that it really isn’t that bad after all.

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Chrystal Evans Hurst About Chrystal Evans Hurst

Chrystal Hurst is a writer, speaker, and worship leader in addition to serving as the chief executive operating officer in her home as a wife and mother of five. She is a self-proclaimed "geek" and bibliovore, who is actively seeking help for her addiction to Starbucks, sweet tea, and chocolate chip cookies.

Chrystal is co-author of the recent release, Kingdom Woman. She also blogs regularly at Chrystal’s Chronicles where she poignantly reflects her thoughts about her faith and day-to-day experiences. Chrystal firmly believes God’s promise in Jeremiah 29:11, “I know the plans that I have for you…” and she desires to help others believe and apply that truth to their lives.

  • http://adiligentheart.com/ Marlene

    Love LOVE this!

    • Chrystal

      Yea!

  • Vicki Dominguez

    Thanks Chrystal! Ever since we moved away to be missionaries, Christmas has not been the same. Sometimes the guilt is overwhelming! You made me feel better today!

    • Chrystal

      I definitely know about that guilt. Trying to overcome it by focusing on the important stuff. Not always easy but necessary all the same.

  • http://www.restoredthroughgrace.com/ Shannon Chilson

    It feel refreshing to know that I am not alone. I have a list a mile long in my head and often feel defeated because they are just ideas that don’t pan out. Thank you for being so honest about the Crisis of Christmas. I am going to challenge myself to let go of my plans and just relax and enjoy Him! You have been an encouragement to me today, thank you!

    • Chrystal

      You definitely are not alone. Keep your head up and keep it simple. Jesus really is the reason for the season. Everything else is optional.

  • Sharon MG

    Chrystal, thanks so much for sharing. It seems so much to do in so little time with limited resources. However, I have truly been encouraged by your words! Keep doing what you do :-)

    • Chrystal

      I definitely know about limited resources. Keep going girl. Glad you are encouraged.

  • Luz

    Thank you so much for sharing. Honestly, a lot of the time I feel like I am the only one lacking, time, effort, space, money, etc. your message has refreshed my soul. : )

    • Chrystal

      Yea! Glad to hear that…

  • Jéssica Mulenga

    loved the post! loved the fact that you pointed out how Jesus came in imperfect situation, out of an imperfect family, and yet we try to do it perfectly all the time. may God richly bless you and allow you to rest and focus on Him this Christmas*** thank you for sharing

    • Chrystal

      It’s all about Him. And I’m glad about it!

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